How to use sex toys - a beginner's guide

Where can I buy sex toys, and how can I use them like an expert

Whether you are a novice who is just curious and wants to try, or an old player who wants to add a few more, when thinking about adult fun, you often encounter two problems:

  • Where can I buy sex toys safely?
  • How can I use sex toys to be most comfortable and satisfying?

Part 1: Where can I buy sex toys - reliable, reassuring, and safe

When it comes to buying sex toys, not all stores are the same. You have to choose a place with good quality, safety, privacy protection, and even a little texture.

 1. Buy from a reliable online store

Online shopping is private and convenient, and there are many types to choose from. Pay attention when choosing:

  • Sex toy brand stores with good reputation
  • Packaging and bills can protect privacy (no one can tell what it is)
  • SSL secure payment (information is safe when paying)
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 2. Don't buy low-quality and unsafe ones

Stay away from these:

  • Toys sold in unbranded markets, which are very cheap and suspicious
  • Packaging without labels or unclear materials
  • No return or refund policy
  • Cheap toys made of "jelly rubber" or unmarked plastic may contain phthalates (harmful ingredients) and irritants - don't take risks.

 3. Buy in local physical stores (if you want to touch it yourself)

Some cities have stores with open-minded and sexually tolerant attitudes, and the staff are very professional. If you prefer to choose in person, search these:

  • Feminist-style sex toy boutiques (focused on the female experience)
  • LGBTQ+-friendly adult product stores
  • Stores that focus on health concepts and carefully select products

How to use sex toys - a beginner's guide

Now that you know where to buy them, let's talk about the most interesting part: how to use sex toys safely and comfortably.

🔥 1. Understand the types of sex toys first

There is always one that suits your body and your heart:

  • Vibrator - There are special ones for vibrating the clitoris, vibrating the G-spot, stick-shaped, and bullet-sized
  • *** - Some are made to look like the real thing, some have a fantasy design, and some can be used at both ends
  • Anal toys - butt plugs, beads, prostate massagers
  • Male masturbators - sex dolls
  • Couple toys - remote-controlled vibrators

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🔥 2. Be sure to use lubricants

Lubricants are not optional - they can make you more comfortable and reduce friction pain.

  • Water-based lubricant: can be used on toys of all materials
  • Silicone-based lubricant: slippery and can last a long time (but don't use it on toys made of silicone, it will damage the material)
  • When having anal sex, be sure to use a special anal lubricant (thicker and not easy to dry)

🔥 3. Wash before and after use

Wash thoroughly to ensure safety and health:

  • Wash with warm water and mild soap, or a special detergent for washing toys
  • Don't soak toys with batteries and charging ports in water
  • Be sure to dry completely before putting them away

🔥 4. Try different positions and settings

Many toys can adjust speed and change modes, and some can even heat. Don't rush to stick to one method:

  • Play on your own in bed or in the shower (only waterproof toys!)
  • Use toys when you're having sex with your partner, and try mixed orgasms
  • Try "edge play" (pause when you're about to orgasm), fantasy role play, or play in front of a mirror

🔥 5. Communicate more when using

If you use it with your partner:

  • Agree on what you can and can't accept first, and when playing with special fetishes or anal sex, set a "safe word" (stop when you say this word)
  • Ask the other person more often: "Is this comfortable?" or "Do you want to go slower?"
  • Try Sex toy that can be controlled by a mobile phone APP, so you can interact even if you're far away

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There's no need to be afraid of buying and using sex toys masturbator - the key is to follow your own pace and do what feels good.

Remember these points:

  • Buy good quality toys from reliable places
  • To use safely, be sure to use lubricants, communicate more, and take good care of them
  • Wash and put them away

If you've always wanted to know where to buy and how to use them, now you know.

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Posted Jul 27 2025, 11:40 PM by xlovesr