Bob was sitting on the plane to Detroit when a guy took the seat beside him. The guy was an emotional wreck: pale, hands shaking, moaning in fear. "What's the matter?" Bob asked. "I've been transferred to Detroit -- there are crazy people there. They've got lots of shootings, gangs, race riots, drugs, poor public schools, and the highest crime rate in the nation." Bob replied, "Relax. I've lived in Detroit all my life. It's not as bad as the media says...