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Disengage, Part II

I am full on into my disengagement practice. For those who have questions about how it works, here are some day-to-day examples. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Aug 27 2015 9:46 AM by Step Talk

Anyone else paranoid?

I am paranoid. I admit it. I make a point not to mess with other people or their lively hoods because you never know when someone will snap. People are crazy now days. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Sep 03 2015 7:12 PM by Step Talk

BM is a horrible mom

The skids started crying when it got closer to going back to BM's. They didn't want to go back. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 08 2015 9:32 AM by Step Talk

MARRIAGE RETREAT... then SD calls... whhhhhyyyyyy is it always something with her?!?!?

DH and I go away for a Marriage Retreat. It was so nice. Such a good time talking and enjoying each other... no drama. Intimacy. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Dec 05 2012 9:49 AM by Step Talk

worried about SS5 feeling left out :/

Ok so this is kinda similar to a post I wrote a while back http://www.steptalk.org/node/216316 read more Read More...

Published Fri, Sep 04 2015 9:45 AM by Step Talk

If I can't bring my DS, I don't go

I'm so amused by the things SS7 tells us about his time with BM. He's so innocent and so candid because of it. Things like: read more Read More...

Published Sat, Jan 11 2014 1:46 PM by Step Talk

SD7 asked me, "Was it easy for you growing up with two moms."

I asked, "Is it easy for you?" read more Read More...

Published Mon, Nov 22 2010 12:34 PM by Step Talk

calling all moms and stepmons of tweens! Help me!

The hormones are kicking in! I know I need to disengage further, but I cant have a child living in my house without some kind of rules! How do you answer those smart ass remarks kids make? read more Read More...

Published Tue, Jan 18 2011 5:29 PM by Step Talk

day 3 of modified "disengaging" and OT

Its day 3. She stayed with bm Saturday night and we picked up Sunday 2pm and went to inlaws. 1. She wasultrasoundice and was on phone whole time. I said nothing about phone!! Go me! read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 4:37 PM by Step Talk

I know there's nothing that can be done, but I feel bad for SD

For a lot of reasons. One of which being she is ALWAYS sick at BM's house. She's with BM 60-65% of the year, she is sick at least once monthly. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Apr 28 2014 11:47 AM by Step Talk

thankful for this forum and feeling better

Very thankful for this place. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Jun 11 2011 7:05 AM by Step Talk

Hey, BM's been a ***, but let's give her what she wants...

I am very frustrated right now, mainly because I'm not disengaged as much as I would like sometimes (advice of the counselor). read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 5:14 PM by Step Talk

Perfect card for a special someone

I'd love to give this one to BF's mom for Christmas. http://www.uncookedlandthestore.com/card-categories/detail.php?id=274 Read More...

Published Wed, Nov 27 2013 6:18 AM by Step Talk

Decided to let "sleeping dogs lie"

SO has NOT mentioned contacting the Girhippo or the skids again; he knows now this was just one big plot (again) for the Gir to get business as usual; glorified babysitting for the youngest started up read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 08 2010 8:09 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

You've shown me yours so I will show you mine: BM

I should win with this: 10 words 10 words 10 words http://i.imgur.com/dmBmuJu.jpg Read More...

Published Sun, Oct 18 2015 7:40 AM by Step Talk

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