December 2014 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

Update on my drug convo with DH

Basically, he doesn't care about the weed smoking. He only cares because I am stressing him out and he has enough stress at work to deal with. He doesn't need to come home to my nagging. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 09 2014 5:38 AM by Step Talk

Article from Today - A decent BM

I'm not sure if this has been posted yet, but I came across this open letter from a BM to SM. I'm pretty lucky with 1 of our 2 BMs, but I'm sure many of you wish you had the BM in the letter! read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 09 2014 5:32 AM by Step Talk

"Did I hurt your feelings?"

Ok, it was another weekend from hell with Skids, mostly to be fair with SD9, she is the one who causes all the problems, self centered, manipulative, lies, steals, disrespectful towards SO that she tr read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 09 2014 3:19 AM by Step Talk

Week 3 - gained 3.4

Not a good week. Was under a lot of stress but I do think things are going to be getting better after DH's breakthrough this past weekend. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 09 2014 3:12 AM by Step Talk

Skids are obsessed with stepdad. Driving me insane!

Yes, this is petty I know. I just feel so bad for my dh watching this all unfold. Bm is engaged to a seemingly decent guy. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 09 2014 2:57 AM by Step Talk

O/T: My kitty is missing :(

I got home this evening around 9:45 from the most grueling exam I have ever taken, and asked DH if he had fed the animals (which is a mostly rhetorical question, because he almost never does). read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 08 2014 10:54 PM by Step Talk

Yep, It's definitely December. AKA "BM's craziest month of the year."

Usually around late November, I start to wonder what shenanigans BM will pull in December to make our lives miserable and cause distress to her daughters. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 08 2014 10:18 PM by Step Talk

Blog hog... DH did it again

SD calls DH. She is going to the ER. Can he pick up SGD. Of course, we are not a we then. He says yes. He is thinking of picking up DD then SGD. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 08 2014 9:50 PM by Step Talk

Another view point would be nice

So my court order states first half of Christmas break to mom on even years, half to dad. One kid has 2 weeks, one has three. So we go off shortest time. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 08 2014 9:40 PM by Step Talk

My 'mini-wife' theory

I have a theory about mini wives whether it be SDs or SS--as in my case. I think a lot of times the dads like to feel like they are being fought over. Especially by their kids. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 08 2014 9:19 PM by Step Talk

Feeling guilty that I'm relaxed...DH and skids are gone

When DH travels for work the skids go to BMs house. So some nights are just me and some are just me and DS. I can tell the difference. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 08 2014 9:04 PM by Step Talk

Week 9: Stressed Out!!

This past week was a really stressed out week with tons of emotions and a Christmas Party. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 08 2014 8:53 PM by Step Talk

Seven days until D-day.

What is D-day you may ask? Well D-day is the day that BM's house of lies comes tumbling down. Or at least gets a decent sized *** in it's armor. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 08 2014 8:34 PM by Step Talk

AHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!

I went to counseling on Friday because I feel like I am about to lose it. I work full time (teaching kindergarten), have a blended family of 5 (2 with special needs). read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 08 2014 8:14 PM by Step Talk

i am demoted when Sd8 is here

I notice how different dh treats me when Sd8 is here. As we speak, Sd8 and Dh are cuddling on the couch several seats away from me,while I sit alone. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 08 2014 7:41 PM by Step Talk

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