July 2014 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

How is it that I can still be completely stunded at this woman's "logic"?

OK so I think DH (and I) are handling this one pretty good but I am still stunned she thinks she has ground on this one. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Jul 15 2014 3:34 PM by Step Talk

It's not the LOVE... It's the friendship

Katie Couric got married... She said its not just the love... It's the friendship! Bam ! read more Read More...

Published Tue, Jul 15 2014 6:26 PM by Step Talk

Backlash Today

So, DH just noticed I put the key locked doorknob on DD's room and pitched a fit! My daughter and I had just got to fencing and he called asking why I had done that. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Jul 15 2014 7:47 PM by Step Talk

Should skids be equal priority as bio kid?!

DH and I just got into an argument because I said BS is my priority. DH is upset because he feels all kids should have equal priority for me. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Jul 15 2014 9:18 PM by Step Talk

Starting my "nest egg".

Informed FDH not to rely on my tax return for next year, that it will be going into an account in my name that he will not -Ever- have access to. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Jul 15 2014 10:19 PM by Step Talk

Things are finally making sense

Last night turned out be be interesting, educational, bitter sweet, it took me by surprise. I know I'm talking about this a lot, rest assured, we are going to deal with things. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jul 16 2014 5:30 AM by Step Talk

Told DH I wanted to end things. Can't go on like this.

I knew that another 9 day vacation with skids was going to probably be the end. I just can't continue to live a life where DH is so wound up in his past and allows it to control our lives. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jul 16 2014 5:57 AM by Step Talk

Has anyone had a step kid ask you about their parents??

I have been in my SD's life since she was 2, BM and DH broke up when SD was only 11 months, she is now almost 6. My SD seems to be convinced that I was around when she was a baby.. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jul 16 2014 8:38 AM by Step Talk

BM lying again - always making up an excuse to talk to DH

In the summer DH has SD7 4 weeks, then BM's for 1 week, then 4 weeks here, then back to BM's for a week & then school starts. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jul 16 2014 9:48 AM by Step Talk

20 week scan - team blue!

Had a great 20 week scan today revealed we are expecting a lovely baby boy! Very happy little one is safe and happy and growing as he should. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jul 16 2014 11:46 AM by Step Talk

Creepy creepy creepy...and this time it's not E. coli

I have a friend who is divorced from her husband. They have a 7-year-old daughter. They are civil enough. The ex-H hooked up with the mom of one of the daughter's friends. Nice. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jul 16 2014 3:37 PM by Step Talk

insurance and marriages.

Even thought we live as a married couple, his health insurance won't cover me until we are married. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jul 16 2014 7:16 PM by Step Talk

So frustrated. it's upsetting to them?

How do they think I feel? I was the one lied too, dealt with a mom that never wanted me and then to find my bio dad and hus family says it's upsetting to them? read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jul 16 2014 11:19 PM by Step Talk

Am I being unreasonable here?

BM has skids (SS12, SD10, SD9) every other weekend Thursday night to Monday morning. During the summer SS12 stays at home, and SD10 & SD9 go to a type of summer camp that their school operates. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Jul 17 2014 6:25 AM by Step Talk

Ran into skanky BM1 last night

Stopped at the store last night to look for a shirt for BS4 for an upcoming wedding and who did I run into? BM1 with baby #5. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Jul 17 2014 7:44 AM by Step Talk

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