March 2014 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

How to think of your SO's children?

I have a hard time thinking of my DH's kids as "his kids". read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 11:22 AM by Step Talk

disengagement WIN today

I just realized that this morning I didn't make sure that super busy dh and super busy bm had remembered to call the school and tell them that skids are going to her instead of us today. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 11:15 AM by Step Talk

Update to my blog about custodial bias and BeastCounty FOC

Remember this? http://www.steptalk.org/node/180083 read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 11:10 AM by Step Talk

I should press charges or file a report

On SD's FIL who physically assaulted me by tripping me but I don't have their kind of meanness in me. Besides he and the rest of them would probably lie and say I kicked him. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 11:02 AM by Step Talk

I am tired of being everyone's punching bag...

So dh and I've been together for 13 years. The entire time we have been married my inlaws have blamed me for all the wrongs in the world. Seriously. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 10:59 AM by Step Talk

The Walking Dead- anyone want to talk about it? Possible Spoilers

Anyone want to talk TWD? Theories, thoughts... now just need 10 words to post lol Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 10:59 AM by Step Talk

Visitation on BM terms only-- I don't think so

DF and I are travelling with my Bios to the home state of the SDs this week. We stay with my family, who lives about 15 mins away from BM. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 10:55 AM by Step Talk

How to deal with SS/DH

Basically there is never peace in our household and if there is it is always short lived. Veteran disengaged SMs, how do you keep stuff from getting to you? read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 10:44 AM by Step Talk

Contacting the BM (VENT)

After the last 4+ years of having SS15 I haven't had an adult conversation with BM. Lately I've really wanted to send her a message but I had to ask myself what do I hope to achieve from doing so. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 10:28 AM by Step Talk

Disengaged but cannot bite my damn tongue!

I have been disengaged for about 3 years now-disengaged from SD13, BM and In-Laws. Way too much drama for me. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 10:06 AM by Step Talk

So You Think YOUR BM is Crazy... Read this

BM called DH several times in a row from a blocked number and hung up and dialed right back. She then unblocked her number so he answered. This is what I heard: read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 10:06 AM by Step Talk

so...yeah...disengage.

I think at this point I'm disengaged from everyone except my boys. I really don't want much to do with H anymore either. He's doing the distancing thing, fine with me. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 9:32 AM by Step Talk

Sick of SD and her problems

I am so angry with sd9 right now, i detest her. (see last blog about her eating partially eaten food off of kids' trays). If it's not one thing, it's another with her. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 9:26 AM by Step Talk

Affraid to get my hopes up

DH told me Friday that SD had gone with some friends to look at apartments after school. He says there is a group of them that are planning to get an apartment together after they graduate. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 9:17 AM by Step Talk

Don't want to be a Disney Dad, so here goes...

Bitchface McF_cktard (BM to my kids) has her undies in a bunch because the state has been slow in enforcing child support. She gets AN ASSLOAD of money from me so, cry me a frickin' river. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Mar 10 2014 9:13 AM by Step Talk

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