March 2014 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

Disengaging vs Detachment

I'm struggling with disengaging. Not because I feel inclined to step in any longer and handle things, I'm very much soooo over that. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Mar 22 2014 8:27 AM by Step Talk

Spring Break has started and I hope my house survives disengagement

So I keep a clean house. Ds12 also likes things to be put where they go etc. When he eats or gets a drink, he throws his trash away and puts his dishes in the sink. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Mar 22 2014 7:04 AM by Step Talk

SS's 10th birthday Opens presents before permission. -Says he wants to play video games with his dad and sister - completely leaves me out. Since, I'm not playing, sis doesn't have to play. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Mar 22 2014 7:02 AM by Step Talk

disengagement in the early days is really one day at a time

Not my responsibility. Not my responsibility. Not my responsibility. This is what I have to repeat to myself, while simultaneously giving myself permission to be ok with that. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Mar 22 2014 6:32 AM by Step Talk

slightly O/T its just been bugging me.

Ok I see people, myself included, posting real problems that they just need to let go or want to know what other people who have been in similar situations think about what is going on in their lives read more Read More...

Published Sat, Mar 22 2014 6:08 AM by Step Talk

Almost not pissed. But still, some pissy-ness. Sigh.

I've been angry for a week. Since my DH told me that SD 17 was moving out of her mom's now too. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Mar 22 2014 5:38 AM by Step Talk

Happy bday SD8!

I truly hope today is special, I hope that for once BM pulls her head out of her butt and does something special, because you are special. You don't buck everything people say to you. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Mar 22 2014 5:36 AM by Step Talk

Ss10 told fdh that Derf is trying to be his Dad

Oh Derf, you just don't stop do you? You have two kids of your own go destroy them emotionally please. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Mar 22 2014 5:29 AM by Step Talk

Post Marital Relations part II

Its 7:30 am.... do you know where your XH is? I only ask because mine is sleeping on the pull out couch in my den. Original post that started this mess: http://www.steptalk.org/node/181590 read more Read More...

Published Sat, Mar 22 2014 4:48 AM by Step Talk

Saving cash on air travel

Business and personal air travel is up, despite increased costs. By looking around and not being a servant to package bargains, a frugal traveler can save big. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Mar 22 2014 1:56 AM by Step Talk

When It Comes To Window Cleaning San Diego Is Risky

Why Window Cleaning In San Diego Is Vital read more Read More...

Published Sat, Mar 22 2014 12:24 AM by Step Talk

So very tired...

And I let DH know tonight. When I left the house and DH with SD9 to pick up BS14 and BS12, it was blatantly obvious I was upset. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Mar 21 2014 10:58 PM by Step Talk

DH cancelled seeing SD28 and confessed to lying to me

Well, DH ended up not going to see SD28. Turns out he knew all along why she was upset. He lied to me about "not knowing". read more Read More...

Published Fri, Mar 21 2014 10:30 PM by Step Talk

BM wants joint 16th Birthday celebration for SD

I have not been here in a long time, because things have been going very well. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Mar 21 2014 9:40 PM by Step Talk

BM and her selfish lies!

Wouldn't post, messaged admin quite a few hours, I'm impatient lol sorry. Blog in comments... Read More...

Published Fri, Mar 21 2014 7:55 PM by Step Talk

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