January 2014 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

I HATE the SM in my life

So I have recently become a stepmom, but I've been a REAL mom for ten years to my sweet son. My ex has been with this stepmonster, for years and I absolutely hate her. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 2:44 PM by Step Talk

"Ours"

Im being driven crazy by SDs use of the word "OURS" Sd comes here ewe and is at her moms during the week. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 2:29 PM by Step Talk

Lost Libido [Warning: Long and R18 lol]

I have recently made a decision, a decision that has had an unpleasant effect on my sex life! (post in comments) Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 1:57 PM by Step Talk

SS13 asks, "If dad dies, will you adopt me?" Oh boy.

And BM quit her job and spent the entire weekend at the bar and SS spent the weekend at his cousin's house. Keeping it classy! Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 1:55 PM by Step Talk

We are going to see a marriage counselor today......really getting nervous.

Idk what it is but I am really nervous about seeing this therapist. This whole thing was my idea yet I am shitting bricks over here. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 1:42 PM by Step Talk

Confused, lonely and not sure what to do...

Maybe it's PMS LOL but I'm so stuck in a rut right now, emotionally drained and not sure which way to turn. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 1:20 PM by Step Talk

Finally dropped the big "V" bomb question on DH

Yup, that's right. I finally got up the nerve to ask DH about him getting a vasectomy. He's open to the idea. I can't take birth control and because I haven't had kids no doctor will tie my tubes. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 1:04 PM by Step Talk

SD17 wants us to take her and her new husband on vacation!

Dh filed to stop child support this morning. He hands over a copy of SD17's marriage certificate. I get a text at 9:30 that BM knows about it and goes on to slander DH for trying to stop it. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 12:22 PM by Step Talk

Already stressing. Game tonight. SD16, SD14 and DS15 all play so I can't avoid it.

I picture BM sitting and staring at us all night, or if we see her first we will sit out of her line of sight and then she will only get the chance to shoot eye daggers into us when we walk across the read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 12:10 PM by Step Talk

Have you noticed no good deed goes unpunished with SKs?

I was just sitting here thinking about how "backwards" life is in step world. I never tried to be best buddies with my step kids. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 11:59 AM by Step Talk

You're such a douche

DH was trying to change lanes on Saturday when the car behind us decided to swerve over and gun it, causing us to nearly wreck. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 11:53 AM by Step Talk

DH laid out on couch resting...again

I just called the house to check in and make sure it was still standing. SS11 is at home from school today for MLK JR Day. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 11:14 AM by Step Talk

Question about cell phone only houses...no land line

There is no land line phone at BM's house - just her cell phone and her husband's cell phone. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 10:52 AM by Step Talk

Who bears more responsibility in how the kids act and turn out,

Bm or dh? Just seems like there are a lot of poorly behaved skids written about here, but these kids come from all sorts of different situations. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 10:42 AM by Step Talk

Going to admit something pathetic...

Thank to all who responded to my previous post. I know many of you think I am stupid for getting out of a step situation and thinking about going back. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 20 2014 10:36 AM by Step Talk

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