December 2013 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

25 frikking minutes

H spent 25 flipping minutes on the phone with Gutterbag on Saturday. I wonder what he could possibly have to say to her for so long. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 11:23 AM by Step Talk

Lawyers/Military members: question about CS and pension

DH did two smart things in his divorce: he made it so BM couldn't touch his retirement, and he left her with all of their furniture/house decor and started over fresh (I've often wondered how SF toler read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 11:06 AM by Step Talk

So glad I disengaged from skids and crazy BM

Last year was Dh's xmas and I offered my services as babysitter so that he could have them the 1st week of break. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 10:34 AM by Step Talk

Chia pets and Jesus T-shirts

Chia pets and Jesus t-shirts, that's what BM gave SS18 and 16 for christmas yesterday when she exercised a whole 50 minutes of her 7 days of allotted parenting time. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 10:11 AM by Step Talk

I'm so nervous about tomorrow and Xmas...

FDH and BM do every other week. Religiously. No exceptions, not even holidays (per BM). read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 10:09 AM by Step Talk

For many skids, a blue Christmas. Very sad...

As many of you know, BM (E. coli) has only shown any interest in her son for about a year after 7.5 years of minimal contact and generally fuckwitted behavior. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 10:08 AM by Step Talk

Blue Christmas

1. Rejoice, rejoice BM has a boyfriend. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 9:18 AM by Step Talk

This can't be good for a child's development

We found out yesterday that BM accepted her BF proposal. This was after a whole bunch of events. Some back ground on BM's dating and marriage habits: -BM and DH get divorced read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 8:35 AM by Step Talk

I've got to suck it up and ask for meds.

I just can't do this. He's so stupid, and so annoying, and so disrespectful, and so bound and determined to do whatever he wants 100% of the time and I just can't keep fighting it. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 8:32 AM by Step Talk

Will be happy when SS14 goes to BM's

That's it, nothing else to say other than I will be so happy when the first half of Christmas break is over and SS14 goes to BM's this Friday at 10 AM and I have DH to myself for a week!!! read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 8:19 AM by Step Talk

New Year's Resolution - DISENGAGE

I had a big talk with DH last night. It wasn't an ideal way to have the talk, but at least it happened! read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 8:17 AM by Step Talk

Kids sharing a bedroom

Just taking a poll here but really want to know what everyone thinks. The situation is this: the home SS7 lives in with his BM only has 3 bedrooms. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 7:39 AM by Step Talk

O/T - ANYONE EFFECTED BY THE TARGET CREDIT CARD BREACH?

Knock on wood, I shopped there twice and I'm ok, so far. Watching my account like a hawk (my bank, too). Some azhat used my sister's cc info and charged a $250 dinner in NY. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 7:38 AM by Step Talk

I'm Taking Bets

There hasn't been a word from FauxSS9 about coming over for Christmas. Of course not. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 6:31 AM by Step Talk

To: BM ... From: Us

One sullen, angry teenage boy, sent to your home at 8 am when he'd rather be at Dad and SM's home. ENJOY reaping what you have sown! First time ever, SS said: I don't want to go over there. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 23 2013 6:06 AM by Step Talk

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