September 2013 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

I am ashamed to have dh's last name

I have an issue that I haven't seen on the blogs yet and is really getting to me, especially and I have been beginning a new career in a very professional environment that involves meeting with many n read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 24 2013 2:38 AM by Step Talk

DH heard my shot go off

Is feeling disconnected "normal"?

Ever since I had that super bad week last week, I've felt super disconnected from DH. We've mostly gotten along better. He hasn't been super caring really. That is not why. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 24 2013 12:50 AM by Step Talk

Ways to be happy without blending our families and why we only fight about his kids...

I am noticing that my DH and I get along fine when there is no talk of his kids. Or his past. I've really come to see that ALL of this drama and nastiness has always been because of just this. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 24 2013 12:30 AM by Step Talk

Total Transformation?

Anyone know of this? I haven't seen the program but this guys makes sense about how to raise kids. He says that kids need consequences and no arguing no negotiating just this is what will happen. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 24 2013 12:23 AM by Step Talk

Late and in pain can't sleep brain won't shut up

So in case you can't tell SO and I are reconciling. He has agreed to my terms so to speak and is actively working on understanding my boundary issue and the importance of it. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 11:09 PM by Step Talk

i hate feeling luke the bad guy

I have the skids Evey school night since BM still has no power. Its really taking its toll on the kids. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 9:30 PM by Step Talk

not agreeing on finances

dh and I have our bills split 60/40 with me paying the 60 because I'm a teacher and I make more then him. He used to make more then me but he stepped down. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 7:34 PM by Step Talk

He stole $$$

My ss is a teenager on a bad path, same ole story, over indulgent, too busy bio mom who never sees what he does and down plays what she can't ignore. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 6:18 PM by Step Talk

what IS it with parents these days???

i mean seriously... i was a COD. my step mom was bipolar in a BAAAAD way. my mother was a p.o.s parent and my step father is an alcoholic. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 4:34 PM by Step Talk

Life Throws a Curveball

A few weeks ago I had an abnormal pap smear. I've been having weird symptoms lately. I thought it was menopause. After the doctors visit today I found out I have stage 2 cervical cancer. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 3:44 PM by Step Talk

This is eithier the stupidest thing I've ever heard or the funnest

SD18 asked what I was cooking and I said stuffed artichoke hearts. She tells me she doesn't eat hearts because she is thinking of going vegetarian. " Ummmmmm....... read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 3:32 PM by Step Talk

I hate my bios' SM person

I really truly hate this woman & I don't want to. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 2:55 PM by Step Talk

Am I going crazy?

Although husband and bm have skids 50% of the time each, they are with us 90% of the time. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 2:44 PM by Step Talk

Many of these guys are not victims.

Some of them cheated on the SMs with bm. Some of them made the mistake of not getting to know bm before they got into bed with her. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 2:38 PM by Step Talk

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