September 2013 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

BM and her lies

The kids know (mine and DH's) that they are not allowed to delete anything out of their phones. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 8:34 AM by Step Talk

How many of you have gone through the disengaging process? How did you get DH on board? Did it work? I don't even want to look at my pathological lying SD right now, much less parent her. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 9:35 AM by Step Talk

BM2 crawled out of her hole...

BM2,DH and SS14 had a falling out back in March when SS14 was caught at a drinking party by DH and then when DH confiscated his phone, had numerous text messages in regards to buying and selling dope. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 11:16 AM by Step Talk

Stretching the truth and outright lies

For those of you who want me to stop looking at SD20's online postings, I am trying. But it sure is fun/enlightening sometimes! Two recent doozies (I am paraphrasing): read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 10:21 AM by Step Talk

After another poster's post about emotional incest,..

I think I've discovered why we have so many problems in our relationships exist. DH and SD are emotionally incestuous, and I am the left out spouse. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 1:12 PM by Step Talk

Need advise as a SD so to speak

So I have a question as SD... kind of. Let me give some background. I have to tell you in advance that this is going to long and I thank whoever reads this... read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 12:45 PM by Step Talk

I hate my bios' SM person

I really truly hate this woman & I don't want to. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 2:55 PM by Step Talk

Life Throws a Curveball

A few weeks ago I had an abnormal pap smear. I've been having weird symptoms lately. I thought it was menopause. After the doctors visit today I found out I have stage 2 cervical cancer. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 3:44 PM by Step Talk

not agreeing on finances

dh and I have our bills split 60/40 with me paying the 60 because I'm a teacher and I make more then him. He used to make more then me but he stepped down. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Sep 23 2013 7:34 PM by Step Talk

Total Transformation?

Anyone know of this? I haven't seen the program but this guys makes sense about how to raise kids. He says that kids need consequences and no arguing no negotiating just this is what will happen. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 24 2013 12:23 AM by Step Talk

DH Blind only to his bio kids' misbehavior

DH's kids have abysmal manners when we go out to eat. These are the two who paint each other's faces with the cream from their dessert and he does nothing to stop it until I step in. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 24 2013 5:52 AM by Step Talk

Oh hell.

Everyone say a prayer...for my poor little Beemer. Insurance company us allowing a rental car for the totalled Beetle only of course you have to be over 25 to drive it. That means sd19 can't. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 24 2013 7:57 AM by Step Talk

Shame

Have you ever done something reactive and shameful in response to your issues regarding BM or skid or SO/DH? read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 24 2013 8:09 AM by Step Talk

How to keep BM from seeing your finances?

We have one of those lovely BMs who asks for more money every time we buy something nice, take a vacation, or the weather changes. She recently got a new CO awarding her more of DHs money. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 24 2013 9:11 AM by Step Talk

O/T - Freaky phone call last night

Last night I was laying in bed reading when my cell phone started to ring. When I grabbed it I looked at the time and saw that it was almost 11:00 pm and the call came up as restricted. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 24 2013 10:19 AM by Step Talk

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