November 2012 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

Dh opened up the door AGAIN to let his feelings get hurt...

Why does he do this? Can someone explain? He had being doing so well disengaging from his extremely dysfunctional family. Maybe more so than me. Then, we get a check in the mail. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Nov 05 2012 2:12 PM by Step Talk

Fantasy

I fantasize about my own apartment with my own children. I don't even care if it's a shoebox. My shoebox will have no sourpuss stepshoes in it. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Nov 05 2012 4:24 PM by Step Talk

How to feel when DH talks to Absent BM

Don't you just love it when DH comes home from work (with skid in tow) and the first thing he has to say to you is, "Oh, I talked to BM today." Mind you, our BM has no contact with us for years until read more Read More...

Published Mon, Nov 05 2012 9:09 PM by Step Talk

"Daddy" is my SD's only friend---what is going on and how can I help her?

What do you do when your SD's only friend is your husband? She is in junior high now, so I thought by this time she would start to make some friends. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Nov 06 2012 5:55 AM by Step Talk

SS Called to tell me that he loves me - Drunk as a skunk

SS25 called DH yesterday and asked to speak to me. I said hello and about two sentences and gave the phone back to DH. Oh no he still wanted to talk to me so I got the phone back. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Nov 06 2012 7:08 AM by Step Talk

BM and the Manipulation...

DH travels for work. He somewhat schedules his trips around the custody schedule, in the sense of... read more Read More...

Published Tue, Nov 06 2012 8:28 AM by Step Talk

SS, politics, and abortion

I ended up on the phone with a rather frantic SS recently. He wanted to make sure that I was voting for Obama and not Romney because "Mitt Romney does bad things to women." read more Read More...

Published Tue, Nov 06 2012 9:20 AM by Step Talk

What say you?? Who has thought this before?

I have a hunch. Our BM has been out of sight since March of 2012, so we have not had to see her hideeous face. As she ages, she looks more and more like the lady from Goonies. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Nov 06 2012 10:52 AM by Step Talk

Not political If you haven't already, please don't forget to vote today!

Another blog made me realize today is the day to get out and vote. Many of us have to make decisions about local measures, city and state government as well as who to vote for President. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Nov 06 2012 9:51 AM by Step Talk

My relationship with DH is over.

I'm very stressed because I'am trying to make all the right decisions with as little pain as possible for us all. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Nov 06 2012 1:04 PM by Step Talk

My MIL... Somebody please just put me out of my misery...

VERY VERY long story short, my MIL is NUTS. Seriously crazy. After her actions at Grandfathers funeral in August DH and I have not been speaking to her. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Nov 06 2012 3:40 PM by Step Talk

I can't even have jewelry

I decided to get custom made jewelry for myself and DD2. We are getting matching bracelets and I'm getting a necklace. The bracelet and necklace has DH's, DD2's, and my initials (in that order). read more Read More...

Published Tue, Nov 06 2012 6:14 PM by Step Talk

I am ready to commit suicide

This is probablly the worst day of my life. I was so counting on being able to finally get a job. The economy is in the dumper. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Nov 06 2012 8:26 PM by Step Talk

One Shoulder Wedding Dresses

BM using courts/custody to control of DH! HELP!

Been married to my dh for almost 2 years. He has 50/50 joint custody of sd10. On day we married BM filed for full custody. Been to court 3 times. She has no proof of anything. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Nov 07 2012 10:04 AM by Step Talk

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