February 2012 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

O/T Oh. My. God.

Sometimes i do not know what planet my husband is on. We live next door to our landlord; its not as terrible as it sounds - huge property. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 7:04 PM by Step Talk

speechless

so sd19 gripes incessantly about how broke she and bf are. yet they go out every weekend and shop all the time. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 6:15 PM by Step Talk

The disapearing bm

Does anyone have a bm who disapears for months on end, is not involved in the childrens school or lives outside of visitation, and who does not pay child support? read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 4:50 PM by Step Talk

I was a litte sad

The last SS(22) finally met me over Christmas. It went REALLY well; both boys commented to SO that it's nice to see him actually happy for once. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 4:27 PM by Step Talk

I know that I am not a bad person, ex wife, wife, mother, stepmother, friend, daughter or sister...

in fact Im pretty damn good at all of those roles, I put the effort in, I'm there when I'm needed, I go the extra mile, I identify problems, I consider feelings, I problem solve, I smooth things over, read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 1:42 PM by Step Talk

BM's attempt to PAS me turns into a PAS of DH. Score, ***!

SS7, like all children, grows constantly. We usually do two stints of pants, one at the beginning of fall and the other around the holidays. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 1:31 PM by Step Talk

Dear BM: you already had the perfect life

*here's a letter I'll never send that i'm writing as an "anger management" technique* BM: read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 12:44 PM by Step Talk

Were any of you PAS'ed as children?

I've realized how much I was PAS'ed as a kid from reading this site. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 12:37 PM by Step Talk

I Do Not Understand SS9's Relationship With BM Sometimes...

So we have SS9 this weekend and he is in school basketball again this year. He has games every Sat., and he did not bring his jersey with him to school on Fri., and I picked him up from school. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 12:34 PM by Step Talk

SS Birthday: I just agreed to go to BM's for SS birthday party. Ugh

It's been four years since the divorce. Neither DH nor myself have ever been invited to a birthday party for the boys at BM's. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 11:16 AM by Step Talk

Laid it all out

I decided to talk to SS9 and DH together about SSs behavior. I was blunt and did not hold back, every word, demeanor etc... that SS threw at me. And i did not broker the silent treatment. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 10:36 AM by Step Talk

O/T -- STalk...The New FB (for me at least!)

I used to be a FB junkie. All day. All night. Facebook, Facebook, Facebook. I got off FB about 2 months ago and don't miss it. But now I'm a StepTalk junkie!!!! All day. All night. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 10:21 AM by Step Talk

I hate my family today

I got 4 hours of sleep last night. That's 9 hours in 2 days. I am EXHAUSTED. I am also stuck with the kids all weekend due to FDH working. I feel alone and stuck. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 10:21 AM by Step Talk

Competition between SDs - Can you see the karma train coming? This SM can..

SD11 and SD13 have always been in competition with each other. They always say that they hate each other. I personally believe that they truly do hate each other. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 10:16 AM by Step Talk

I could strangle DH right now....

DH just comes down stairs and TELLS me (yes this is the key word here) that he is going to pick up SD13.5 and SS12.5..fine whatever. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Feb 04 2012 9:13 AM by Step Talk

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