February 2012 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

O/T Respect: earned or entitled to

I need a brain distraction... read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 12:05 PM by Step Talk

Putting the hearts that she broke back together

We stepmoms can somewhat resemble a clean up crew. These kids have gone through their families being torn apart, a sometimes neglectful parent, and so many feelings of hurt, loss, and abandonment. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 11:50 AM by Step Talk

Update: My best laid evil stepmom plans worked thanks to BM lmao

For those that missed it over the weekend... http://www.steptalk.org/node/59921 . read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 11:32 AM by Step Talk

How Worthless Can Someone Be?

This weekend was supposed to be the first weekend DH and I had in a long while together. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 11:29 AM by Step Talk

Went to Lawyers office today.

She basically said the same thing everyone else has said. Just let things go for now. And BM will eventually hang her own self. Meaning that she'll get caught and go to jail. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 11:27 AM by Step Talk

Stupid BM comment : whats yours?

This stupid statement by the skanky BM is one of my favourites:- To SS12 "I don't dare buy you any clothes as they might be too small" read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 11:21 AM by Step Talk

SS's visit on Sunday and my weekend...

So Sunday arrives-the day of the prince's visit-and surprise! he's here at 9:15-45 minutes early-before my dh even gets out of bed. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 9:46 AM by Step Talk

$700.00 cell phone bill, the nuclear holocaust that followed and where we are today....

Well, here is what transpired after the $700.00 cell phone bill thanks to SS12.5 and his $450.00 in overage fees. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 9:32 AM by Step Talk

A little nervous about lunch with BM today...

Unless she cancels, which is very possible. I am meeting BM for lunch in 4 hours. My stomach is kind of in knots. This is not the first time we have met up to talk,just the two of us. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 9:14 AM by Step Talk

Smiles were much more difficult that anticipated.

Our therapist asked me, on Wednesday, to smile at SS7 more this week. Which DH and I both made a point of doing.... err, at least we tried. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 9:05 AM by Step Talk

In the dog house....AGAIN!

Well…I’m in the dog house again. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 8:53 AM by Step Talk

did the expectations change when you got married?

The idea of marrying SO scares the hell out of me for a number of different reasons (I have a huge commitment phobia), one of which is that I’m afraid things are going to change with our situation. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 8:27 AM by Step Talk

the Prize Bags are magical behavior modifiers!!

For anyone not quick enough to follow my blogs before I delete them (me <-- paranoid).. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 8:12 AM by Step Talk

Told FDH that spending lots of time with BS1 cant make up for missed time with SD4.

And its like he still doesnt get it. BM took the CS over having an intact family and left when SD was 4-6 months old. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 8:10 AM by Step Talk

I must've done something right yesterday

I've been staying more and more at SO's place so the skids can get used to me being there. We are trying to make it so they are more like "Where's Hicktard? read more Read More...

Published Mon, Feb 13 2012 7:47 AM by Step Talk

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