January 2012 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

INspired by the "damp sweatshirt" on a skid post

People are upset because a skid wore a damp sweatshirt to school in cold weather and a disengaged SM allowed it - either because she could care less or because there was damned little she could do oth read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 9:29 PM by Step Talk

Thinking about being a step-daughter (part 2)

In my last blog, I mentioned slipping my SM's shoes on to try and gain perspective. I also have taken the time to look at my relationship with my mom's long term boyfriend (like a SF). read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 9:10 PM by Step Talk

BM is an ass and FH blows up at me - like freak'n clockwork!!!

BM decides today to play more BS games. Nothing unusual. SD needs shoe NOW NOW NOW and DH need to take them tonight or her feet will fall off. SD completely oblivious about it all. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 9:09 PM by Step Talk

Thinking about being a step-daughter (part 1)

My parents divorced when I was 4. I seriously have, about 10 memories of my family before the divorce. Dad remarried shortly after (I think I was 5 or 6) - so I have had a step mother for essentially "all of my life". read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 8:51 PM by Step Talk

Sick as a dog thanks to horrible parenting

SD13 brought home a nasty flu this past weekend. Hardly unusual at this time of year. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 8:39 PM by Step Talk

And the cycle goes on and on and on.....

ok so several years ago when I first got involved in skids lives SD was too young for any brain washing but SS was ripe for BM's picking, and poison his mind she did. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 7:52 PM by Step Talk

DH finally went to the schools, etc...truancy officer HATES BM lol

So DH and I ran around trying to get court records, etc. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 7:44 PM by Step Talk

I thought today would be the last day of the psychologist's "evaluation" of SS7...

...but apparently we need one more appointment (today's was #3) and a bunch of surveys filled out by his teachers. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 5:57 PM by Step Talk

A PASinator BM appeared on Dr. Phil, and he reamed her for it!

This episode took place this past week. What a bitter BM. I feel for those kids. I don't think biodad is perfect, but I think he's trying to do the best he can for his kids. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 5:28 PM by Step Talk

tired of being the unacknowledable servant

I hate the way SD says (pukey high pitched voice) "thanks dad" when he makes her a plate of food (even if I cooked it!) but if I make her food and serve it, never any eye contact, NEVER EEEEVVVVVER a read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 5:18 PM by Step Talk

Fil bs … again

So i am preggers w baby no. 2 and just found out last week. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 4:23 PM by Step Talk

DH blew up this morning (mad at BM)

My DH is usually very mellow when it comes to conflicts with BM. He either gets sad or acts like there's no point in having an emotional reaction. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 3:16 PM by Step Talk

SIMS and Twilight for a 5 year old. Please tell me your thoughts...

So over the weekend FDH and I were in Best buy with his girls looking at WII games for FDH (his dad got him one for Christmas, he lost his old one to BM in the divorce). read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 1:40 PM by Step Talk

Prime Example of Brattiness!

SS8 is a brat. His brother who is only 20 months older is awesome. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 1:02 PM by Step Talk

Things that make you go hmm....

SD9 has supposedly officially moved in with BM's mother, while SD11 and SD4 are still with BM. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 04 2012 12:49 PM by Step Talk

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