December 2011 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

if the child only creates drama should they be allowed to do it?

SD16 came to supper this evening. I had an appointment so she had dh all to herself. Somehow it all ended crappy with her bawling and bringing up why her mother and dh aren't together as well as some old past issues. Its all the same thing every time...

Published Thu, Dec 01 2011 7:36 PM by Step Talk

O/T Travelling

This morning I am off to my home country as my mother is extremely ill. Right now it is a 50/50 crap shoot. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Dec 02 2011 5:26 AM by Step Talk

Wow really! Not this again.

Just when things turn gray dh does something to make everything bright again. We haven't had our “play time” since sd started all this crap. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Dec 02 2011 5:49 AM by Step Talk

I hate laziness in SKids

I am not sure what to do any more with my SKids laziness. I am not working so I baby sit for them. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Dec 02 2011 7:11 AM by Step Talk

OMG!!!! I just checked SD's facebook page!

After BM apparently grounded her for bad grades till January and she skipped a week of school last month. SHE LET HER SKIP SCHOOL TODAY!! read more Read More...

Published Fri, Dec 02 2011 8:04 AM by Step Talk

NOWHERE FOR BM TO HIDE!!!

Here is the update.After BM has hid and avoided the sheriff for 3 months from being served divorce papers, We finally got her into the lawyer's office. She signed the Jeristiction papers. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Dec 02 2011 10:05 AM by Step Talk

Sick of Loose Boundaries....my problem or DH's?

I've been expressing to DH for a very long time now that I am extremely upset by his constant communication with BM. They text each other every day and talk on the phone. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Dec 02 2011 10:56 AM by Step Talk

What is the stupidest thing BM has ever said...

#1: FDH (in the military): "I'm being deployed." BM: "Great! Now there goes my social life!" read more Read More...

Published Fri, Dec 02 2011 1:41 PM by Step Talk

SD20 and DS8months Christmas

I'm a bit annoyed with DH, although I should be happy that he is seemingly happy with SD20. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Dec 02 2011 2:16 PM by Step Talk

. . .so I didn't . . .

After I posted my last entry I went back into SD's room. DH wants me to treat her like my own so I did. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Dec 02 2011 3:35 PM by Step Talk

Heartbroken

I was brushing SD's hair after her bath tonight and she started talking about nana (DH's mother who no longer talks to us). read more Read More...

Published Fri, Dec 02 2011 5:21 PM by Step Talk

feeling blue...

the kid has a hernia or something and it was hurting him and so his mom called up because the kid was crying and so DH of course gets all worried and now he is going over there to see him. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Dec 02 2011 8:37 PM by Step Talk

PTSD as it relates to volatile Skids and hostile Custodial Parents

I have recently reached a point in my day-to-day life that whenever SD16, SD13, psycho BM or her criminal husbands name are mentioned, I internally and physically cringe and emotionally shut down. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Dec 03 2011 5:03 AM by Step Talk

Update: Upcoming Show Cause Hearing - Contempt of Court Order

Well, this has been a stressful week for DH. BM is under what is called a contempt court order. Meaning she has to follow the court order or go to jail for 30 days. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Dec 03 2011 7:48 AM by Step Talk

Stomach Ulcer - Happy Birthday to Me!!

Well the doctor confirmed yesterday (happy 43rd birthday to me) that I have several ulcers in my stomach. read more Read More...

Published Sat, Dec 03 2011 2:49 PM by Step Talk

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