December 2011 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

Food

So SS refuses to eat the food that I cook. He's been losing weight so DH is letting him eat whatever he wants because of it. Why don't you just tell the damn child to eat what is cooked? read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 06 2011 2:08 PM by Step Talk

I need help! My bil is he coming on to me or what?

Ok bil (my sisters dh) started talking to me months ago about my implants. Started off as questions saying sis wants them too. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 06 2011 1:15 PM by Step Talk

VERY INTERESTING!! Re: Repercussions of CS

How the system encourages BMs and "new daddy" aka Stepdaddy to cash in when CS is involved. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 06 2011 12:23 PM by Step Talk

Frustrated with SS18 and SD16 still and again -- vant

They went and spent time with SD22 two days ago, and since then they have been acting even more indifferent towards me. They are difficult towards me, rude, won't talk to me most of the time, etc. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 06 2011 12:22 PM by Step Talk

Christmas time again..

Well DH FINALLY called and talked to BM last night. So here's the plan. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 06 2011 12:13 PM by Step Talk

I have been feeling blah and need your advice

I have been feeling down lately and I need your advice and support to pull me out of it. Things should be going great right now. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 06 2011 12:03 PM by Step Talk

SD doeant remember anything we tell her to do.

We have tries giving her daily chores on a chore chart but it was too frustrating to have to constantly remind her to do everything. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 06 2011 11:26 AM by Step Talk

Visitation

Sometimes SD11 does not want to go to her mother's for her visit, does anyone know how this is handled legally? read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 06 2011 10:09 AM by Step Talk

So do you force visitation?

This is a question about my bios and their dad...some of you know from old blogs the issues with my ex. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 06 2011 8:26 AM by Step Talk

Reasons why I know they are your Children Heffa

So for years The BM has been telling my FDH that these are her kids and she doesnt want them around me or mixed company. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 06 2011 8:05 AM by Step Talk

Reason why I know they is your children HEFFA

So for years The BM has been telling my FDH that these are her kids and she doesnt want them around me or mixed company. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 06 2011 7:59 AM by Step Talk

Advice on another response

The short version of the latest round of emails goes like this: FDH: I'll be taking SS X week for Christmas visitation. Kraken: long ranting emails about what a terrible father FDH is. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 06 2011 7:28 AM by Step Talk

Vacation Update

The boys came over this past weekend crying and giving us a load of crap because we would not allow BM to take them (on our dime) for three days during our Disney Vacation. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 06 2011 7:12 AM by Step Talk

this kid is a bioterrorist...

So after being sick for an entire week from god knows what that FSS4 brought home from daycare, now I'm realizing that some itchy spots that I've had on my upper body for at least a month now are 1) g read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 06 2011 7:00 AM by Step Talk

This coming wekend is our kid weekend, and the last one before Christmas any bets on if SD13 comes or not?

I bet that she try's. We have a busy weekend planned. My mom,BD and I have volunteered to do some face painting at a benefit. read more Read More...