January 2011 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

Disengagement - the next step.... how?

I struggled this weekend - I felt like I have been doing pretty darn good at disengaging - but this weekend I struggled. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 31 2011 10:24 AM by Step Talk

FSD Sabotoged my shampoo and conditioner.

Alright in a nutshell, my FSD spent the weekend with me and my BF. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 31 2011 12:01 PM by Step Talk

"...what if?"

...DH approached me after the new year saying that he would be all for my considering having a child of our own. The thought has softened my feelings about the subject. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 31 2011 12:24 PM by Step Talk

Just hafta mention Friday's funny! My skids get picked up at 5 at a Casey's down the way.BD takes them.they r out of the truck nd into bm's car that's it. Every Fri and evry Sun 5p. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 31 2011 3:28 PM by Step Talk

Who the hell coined the phrase

"You marry the man so you marry the children" and where do they live ? Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 31 2011 2:34 PM by Step Talk

Taxes! Can't believe BM is such a dingy person.

so...This year is DH's year to claim SS2 on his taxes. BM claimed SS2 last year...But after DH attempted to file his taxes, guess what! BM had already claimed SS2...Imagine that... read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 31 2011 3:48 PM by Step Talk

i would like opinions

some of you have read my other post but i have a major quandary. i have disengaged from the bm because i truly hate her, but i wonder if that is the right thing to do. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 31 2011 6:31 PM by Step Talk

Fear is a big jerk. (Nothing to do with being a SM..)

I have a problem. I get anxiety when FDH is away. I know what it comes from. I've been "shrinked" before. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 31 2011 8:37 PM by Step Talk

Poll: Question on dealing with Skids

Just a quick question: Do you think our need to "control situations" causes the most stress in the home? Here is my reason for asking: read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 17 2011 6:06 AM by Step Talk

FSD19 is mad at me, about her loser BF !

FDH called FSD19 to talk to her about the new BF. He mentioned the guy stealing $250,000 from his Grandparents and she hung up on him. She then started texting him, saying "he has changed" LOL. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 17 2011 7:15 AM by Step Talk

HOW TO DO FREE CRIMINAL BACKGROUND SEARCHES.

I posted in the "GENERAL FORUM" how to do criminal background checks (also divorce checks, judgement checks, etc..)via the state court system web site. There are no fees for this in MN & WI. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 17 2011 8:05 AM by Step Talk

Yet again, another fine example my XH has NO BOUNDARIES...

Background, my XH has no boundaries, he would walk into my house (mine and DHs) if I didn't stand in the doorway, he will call saying he is coming to borrow the trailer to go camping because he used i read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 17 2011 9:20 AM by Step Talk

Mid-Term Grades

So I have to set aside all of the chaos, arguments, and horror of the past couple weeks... mid-term grades came out. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 17 2011 10:32 AM by Step Talk

hurt feelings

I've been gone from home since Friday when I left for my Grandmother's funeral. when i got home neither skid said anything to me. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 17 2011 10:48 AM by Step Talk

So. Upset. I'm. Shaking.

Some of you may know that the BM in my situation only has supervised visitation with the boys b/c of her history of drug abuse. The supervising party is her mother. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 17 2011 11:47 AM by Step Talk

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