September 2010 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

DH tells BM to stop manipulating - GO DH!!!

Some of you guys caught my post the other night about how to spot the BM manipulation. DH replied to her and I'm SO proud of him!!!! Sorry if this is long.... read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 14 2010 7:07 AM by Step Talk

Triangulating

My oldest SD is beautifully rambunctious at 13. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 14 2010 7:51 AM by Step Talk

Long: My SS's first court case - Proud Arrow set the precident so I will follow suite.

My wife became pregnant with our son (my SS) when she was 16 and BioDad was 21. BioDad has a long history of inappropriate if not criminal sexual relationships with minors. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 14 2010 7:10 AM by Step Talk

When DH Complains about My Kids...

we have a pleasant productive conversation, like last night. I listen, agree, empathize, do not get defensive and empower him to deal with it in the manner we mutually agree upon. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 14 2010 8:34 AM by Step Talk

UPDATE : OMG, DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA !

So... I called the FSD15 school today. Talked to her counselor to find out what we should do to cover FDH butt about her not being in school. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Sep 15 2010 9:56 AM by Step Talk

Sooooo.....

why is it ok for me to be a "parent" to my skids when it comes to showering them with love and affection, buying things for them, and kissing the ass of both their BMs? read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 14 2010 6:51 PM by Step Talk

BM just has to ruin EVERY conversation.

DF talked to BM and later told me that he was really surprised because they were actually having a very nice and mature talk about SD5's weekend visitation changes and how she's doing in kindergarten, read more Read More...

Published Wed, Sep 15 2010 8:53 AM by Step Talk

Alienating your Child

I know that 'taste' is 'taste'..and that we all have different opinions, but I struggle with this. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Sep 15 2010 7:59 AM by Step Talk

Why was I skipping over BM posts ????

My first few days on ST I read all of the posts. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Sep 15 2010 12:43 PM by Step Talk

Real World Ha!

Real world vs Fantasy land is haunting me today. Just got off the phone w/ DH. SS6 had first FLAG football practice last night. 1st and 2nd graders. Came home and started crying to BM. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Sep 16 2010 1:11 PM by Step Talk

"Every boy should have a truck"

I was listening to NPR this morning. They had a memorial to the 11 men who died on BP oil platform in the Gulf. They told a bit about each man who died. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Sep 16 2010 12:14 PM by Step Talk

Kids Mom Had "diluted" Drug Screen

My bf took his ex to court last week and she had to take a drug test. The results came back as "diluted". read more Read More...

Published Thu, Sep 16 2010 6:33 PM by Step Talk

Overstepping (sorry, being a blog hog. :( )

SD comes to me tonight and asks me to show her how to shave her legs and get her some razors and shaving cream. She's about to turn 11. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Sep 16 2010 6:31 PM by Step Talk

Required Movie to View for all Guilty/Coddling bioparents

Who think they are doing their kid a favour by feeling sorry/pitying their "children of divorce" "The Miracle Worker" 1962 Starring Anne Bankroft and Patty Duke read more Read More...

Published Tue, Sep 28 2010 6:20 AM by Step Talk

Bahahahaha....you won't believe what FDH just suggested!

So we're discussing Christmas Holidays and childcare scheduling and FDH pipes up and says "Why don't you just take the week off and we can take all 5 skids on vacation?" read more Read More...

Published Thu, Sep 09 2010 9:15 PM by Step Talk

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