August 2010 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

A Little Introduction/Rant/Solicitaion for Advice

I am 39 years old, never married, no children. I just moved into the home of my BF after a year of dating. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 10:12 AM by Step Talk

How hard is it to change custody papers??? (regarding my bio son)

So here is my situation: XH & I have 50/50 shared custody. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 9:50 AM by Step Talk

SD5's first day of kindergarten and she's wearing makeup!!!!!!!!!!

BM drove SD5 to school for her first day of kindergarten, which is today. My fiance has been talking to her for weeks and telling her that he wants to be involved with the first day stuff. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 9:24 AM by Step Talk

is it sunny in hell? or just hot?

Did anyone else wake up today and see the sun shining, beautiful blue sky, flowers blooming, light breeze...and think "I hate my life?" I am an outsider in my own home, take a backseat to the ex wife read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 9:16 AM by Step Talk

Crappy Parent Vent

I know this is a SM board but I need a moment to vent about my stupid EXH for a moment so please bear with me. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 9:08 AM by Step Talk

BM drama not effecting you update

Well, she is doing the e-mail thing instead of the blowing up the phone thing but now we have these: read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 9:07 AM by Step Talk

debt

i racked up a TON of debt going to college between student loans and the awesomeness of credit cards. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 8:19 AM by Step Talk

Poll: How do you log BM's actions/inactions/craiziness?

I see a lot of people who 'log' BM's actions for future court cases. I have even suggested that people log these things in my replies. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 8:09 AM by Step Talk

SD's health ordeal. Is this normal????

OK, it's been years since I was pregnant so maybe I forgot everything but it does not sound normal to me. SD is pregnant exactly 4 weeks. She talks to her dad daily for an hour discussing pregnancy. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 8:04 AM by Step Talk

O/T Mortgage Escrow Roller Coaster Strikes Again

New "adjustment" for escrow came in the mail; seems there is a shortage once again and now the total payment will be 38% of my net pay. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 7:57 AM by Step Talk

BM drama and how you let it effect you.

DH and I got into a minor spat last night. In a previous blog I mentioned the lengths we had to go to because SD was sick and BM doesn't give a rats ass. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 6:37 AM by Step Talk

guy language.......

So yesterday my BF of one year indicates he wants to converse later about our housing situation. By the time we actually get time together it is 11pm. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 6:32 AM by Step Talk

Is it possible to disengage from BM and her dealings with DH

but not the kids? I just want to not give a damn what BM does. I want to not care if my DH forgets he is a man and lets he do what she pleases. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 6:13 AM by Step Talk

Poll: FDH vent (short)

So I would like to know: read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 5:52 AM by Step Talk

couldn't keep my mouth shut

Been relativley good w/disengaging, which is difficult when DH is the PC, so SD17 lives w/us 90% of time. But last night, just lost it. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Aug 31 2010 5:31 AM by Step Talk

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