January 2010 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

OT and not at the same time.

I'm a short timer. I knew that when I accepted the position. At least I THOUGHT I was...I spoke once about my internal scales of worth it and not. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Jan 07 2010 11:03 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Ex - lets the kids get away with too much!

I am on both sides of the coin. I have biokids who live with thier dad, and I have Skids who see thier dad. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Jan 07 2010 11:35 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Advice on how to gain custody

I thought this may be interesting for those who are trying to or thinking of gaining custody of their Skids... http://victoria.tc.ca/Community/MensCentre/custody.htm Read More...

Published Thu, Jan 07 2010 9:52 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

OT: Does DH want me to NOT care about him?

My DH is one of those people who absolutely cannot "commit" to another person in a truly meaningful, full way. I've accepted this about him, even if it often means we live parallel lives. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Jan 07 2010 6:38 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

correcting SD when shes doing wrong?

My husband works from 5am to almost 6pm most days so when SD is here she is in my care most of the time. She is not disciplined at BM house. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 06 2010 8:45 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Ex-husband is a cad!

I just spent a week with my ex-husband, for the sake of my kids. At which time he tried to sleep with me. He has a girlfriend, but as I am not a homewrecker I didn't. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 06 2010 12:22 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

It still gets to me sometimes

I HATE it FH talks to other people about the fact that he has been married and divorced. I can't stand the thought of him EVER being married to crazy BM!!! read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 06 2010 8:24 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Why Is It So Hard For Bio-Parents To See The Positive?

You have freed yourself from a previous relationship where your needs were not fulfilled. You likely were cheated on, used, abused, and disrespected. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 06 2010 8:35 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Boundaries

BF said that he is going to set boundaries. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Jan 06 2010 10:32 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

DH has lost his ever-loving Mind!! Having a drink with BM??? NOT COOL!!

So I will condense this story, because it is long. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 25 2010 7:12 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Insted of being...

angry when I heard you called, I laughed!! I am done being angry. I will not let you try to ruin our lives anymore! Keep trying to con DH into giving you more and more money, it is not working. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Jan 08 2010 9:37 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

OT - Passive Aggressive

Anyone in a relationship with someone who is PA? If so, can you share your experiences. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Jan 08 2010 9:10 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Christmas package

Skids BM and maternal grandmother are notorious for sending their Christmas package way past Christmas. SO says that BM has always been this way. Last years Christmas package showed up in August. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Jan 08 2010 1:11 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Two Days Since We Fought --- An Update

I have been deeply touched by the concern this community has shown me after my post following the fight with my H that turned physical. I don't really know where my head is at right now. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 04 2010 9:38 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Do you or DH "tattle" on each other's kids?

I was wondering about this in light of recent events in my own family...have your and DH's defenses gotten so high that you or DH won't call the kids out directly...instead just go to each other and s read more Read More...

Published Mon, Jan 04 2010 11:16 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

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