December 2009 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

Talk With BM

For all of you who havent had the opportunity to ever sit down and speak to your DH's BM, if you had that chance what would you really say.....Chime in..... Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 08 2009 6:17 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Had a good Christmas!

We had a great Christmas with the girls, we did ours yestuday sine it is the other Bioparents turn to have them this year. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Dec 25 2009 4:22 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

First Day.....

Maybe it will help to get some of this off of my mind! Had a long discussion with him last night. Told him that I needed to be put first, my feelings need to be considered. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Dec 23 2009 10:36 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Where do your "issues" with skids come from that cause you to disengage?

i ask because ss and i get along really well. he is almost 5. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 22 2009 3:24 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Is it me or would you be pissed?

Ok, we don't have the kids all this week until Saturday the 26th but then we get them on the 26th for 8 days and we are going to Chicago together. Great big family vaation (eye roll). read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 22 2009 3:51 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Still miffed at me...

well.. he's still miffed. He may be MORE miffed now because I didn't involve myself with Windy's pickup today. I stayed in the house and got ready to leave for work. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Dec 23 2009 5:30 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Well...that was a good idea...rolls eyes

Ok...well I did it. I told the H that I was done being the Nazi. Told him he needed to make a list of what wasn't acceptable and the consequence for that behavior. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 22 2009 5:10 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Men

How is it that I can have verbal diarrhea showing every raw emotion I have and the reaction I get is stoic and cold even though he says he loves me and I am the love of his life.Daamnnnn! Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 22 2009 8:27 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

VALIDATION!!! AT LAST!!!!!

DH's brother called last night to talk with DH (they are very close)anyway he wasn't home so his brother and I had a conversation and we got on the topic of Skids(he has SD16) he flat out told me to f read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 22 2009 9:12 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

The Competiton Begins

So here we are at the Holidays, His X dropped off the kids this morning at 8:00 am. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Dec 23 2009 7:32 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

BM has signed SD4 up for yet ANOTHER activity

Things bewteen DH, myself, and BM are still going pretty well. BM us on a new medication for her bi-polar, and she is in a mostly happy relationship. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Dec 23 2009 7:22 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

No so much the pee it's the guilt.

You know I had a lot of comments on the last post about the pee, but the pee and cleaning up doesn't bother me as much as being ignored and shoved aside when it comes to making rules and controlling t read more Read More...

Published Wed, Dec 23 2009 9:46 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Received SS13 "Skippy's" latest report card

and it is not good. He's actually slacking in the so called "fluff" classes. Two unprepared for GYM notifications. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 22 2009 1:26 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Christmas and BM

SS12 just called. He's bummed. BM told him that she wished Santa had never come, all because SS8 is tired and crabby. They partied way late last night with her family. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Dec 25 2009 12:00 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

I'm a complete and utter fool

Step-demon once again pulled the wool over my trusting eyes. And this time I really wanted to believe in her ability to change and feel remorse. I'm an idiot, a fool and so damn dumb. read more Read More...

Published Wed, Dec 23 2009 12:05 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

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