December 2009 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

"Why didn't I run?" I can relate!

"Sometimes I wish that someone had just told me to run the other way. Would I have listened? Probably not. I couldn't see his bad side then, we didn't date long enough really. read more Read More...

Published Sun, Dec 27 2009 3:00 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Another mission

After the christmas gift debacle I'm on a mission... Objective: Let SD and her lack of enthusiasm for anything in life just roll off my mind.For Real. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 28 2009 4:43 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

an iPod... r u kid'n me!

My stupid SD16.2/3 was convicted of disorderedly conduct for beating up a girl back in the summer and her trail was 30 Nov. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 28 2009 6:19 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Now I see where the sense of entitlement comes from

FH got home last night after visiting with his kids (14, 17 & 18) in their city. Their visit went well, as reported by FH anyway, and everyone liked their gifts. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 28 2009 9:05 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

I really and truly love her...suddenly a weight has lifted.

Over the course of December, my DH and I had a lot of conversations about our blended family the stress of step-parenting and my resentment towards his ex. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 28 2009 10:02 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Hi, to all the cool people in the world who choice to become a step parent. It's been awhile since my last blog. Well I'm back with nothing really new just the same S(#T different day. Here the deal. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 28 2009 9:29 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

She's back and ticking me off!! Vent!!!

SD13 has come home with attitude this morning. I hate Mondays and the switch. I really hate that we have attitude on the week on and week off schedule. I just grounded her from Facebook. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 28 2009 10:32 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Clinginess and isolating concerns...any ideas steptalkers?

My mom and dad recently brought up an issue regarding SD9 that DH and I had previously discussed. SD9 has a tendency to be extremely clingy, it's not even always people she knows. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 28 2009 11:22 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Court Orders...ugh.

As part of a child support modification that my husband just had done, the judge ordered that the skids are allowed to bring their stupid cell phone with them to our house. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 28 2009 12:16 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

How do I correct 4 yr old manipulative behavior of my boyfriend???

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and we live together. He has a 4 yr old daughter that I love. She loves me but always has to have her dad's attention. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 28 2009 2:34 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

My MIL

So Me SO MIL and MIL's BF went shopping yesterday for SO's christmas gifts. And she kept talking about BM... read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 28 2009 5:29 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

I'm coming out of the ST closet....

My name when I started on here was Zenmom and I'm going to change it back on here. I don't care who reads now. I will not be a SM any longer as soon as I'm on my feet. read more Read More...

Published Mon, Dec 28 2009 8:50 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Moved on

When I set up my account here-I had the potential to be a SM but since then things have changed drastically. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 29 2009 4:36 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

I don't like myself anymore.

I used to like myself and I try to live a kind and fair life. I believe in 'The Power of Now' and such like, yet I just can't seem to get my head around being loving to my SD16. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 29 2009 5:48 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Disengage, not sure what to do??

So I am trying to disengage. Does disengaging mean not being there? If I am there he will rope me into doing everything. I don't know what to say to him when we are at home to disengage. read more Read More...

Published Tue, Dec 29 2009 7:12 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

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