November 2009 - StepTalk - The Network of Care

Tired of being the bad guy.

My SD is 11. She is/has developed this awful habit of lying. Long story short, I was grounding for her lying. She became mad. She was calling her mom to tell her how mad she was. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Nov 13 2009 7:45 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Don't Know If I Should Be, But I Am....

...hurt by what DH said to me last night. Its dance recital season and by this time we are always busy making costumes for SD/10 and SD/6. This year is a little bit different. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Nov 13 2009 7:23 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

DH on his way to arbitration

Do you ever feel like you have to babysit them through the process they instigated? He sued BM for contempt for withholding his visitation with SD16. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Nov 13 2009 7:09 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

I'm worried something is wrong with SS8...

I've been in his life for the past 3 yrs and he is a super intelligent kid. He is in 3rd grade and reading on an 8th grade level and doing 4-5th grade math. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Nov 13 2009 6:41 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Why does BM want to know my Bday...

So last night I get a text message from BM wanting to know when MY bday is. This floored me. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Nov 13 2009 5:52 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

SS10 might be sick

SS10 has a strange lump on his neck, and BM finally took him to the Dr this week as it's getting painful & is difficult for him to swallow. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Nov 13 2009 5:27 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

What Makes 'Him' Happy

So after posting my blogs and reading the replies yesterday and after reading Confused_Sm's blog, I have never really asked BF exactly what would make HIM feel loved. So I did last night. read more Read More...

Published Fri, Nov 13 2009 4:10 AM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Since OT is my theme of the day...it's possible my sister is out of her ever loving tree....

I'm a wee bit peeved at my sister...*sigh* She decided immediately after I told her about the boy news to post it on facebook....like IMMEDIATELY! read more Read More...

Published Thu, Nov 12 2009 8:29 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Just another Birthday Party Down In Flames...

SS11 had his birthday party on Tuesday, it was a sleepover. SS11 had two of his friends show up extra extra early, one was expected to be early, the other just got dropped off. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Nov 12 2009 8:14 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Wind knocked out again

I dont know how I keep letting this happen. I come home and greet everyone. I notice that SD13 is kinda frumpy from when I called earlier asking if they had eaten. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Nov 12 2009 5:02 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

PeacenQuiet had a great question....

on MsMazi's blog...and I'm not sure it will get noticed. There's a lot of back and forth on you don't live this life so how can you judge... etc etc. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Nov 12 2009 4:28 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

How do I disengage without become resentful?

I have disengaged with my SS17 for various reasons (long story for another thread). My DH has also disengaged recently because SS17 no longer shows him any respect. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Nov 12 2009 2:50 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

The one letter I actually sent to BM

This is the one and only letter I have sent to BM. It was because bf got stationed overseas and the children asked that they get to take care of his cat during that time. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Nov 12 2009 2:23 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

It's a BOY! Totally mostly off topic...

We found out today that we're having a boy! which is what I thought he was I'm highly amused! Read More...

Published Thu, Nov 12 2009 2:04 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

Got the dreaded call from my ex...he received the custody and support papers I finally filed

He's not happy with me. read more Read More...

Published Thu, Nov 12 2009 12:27 PM by Step Talk - Where Stepparents Come to Vent.

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