I have a book I received as a conference goody-bag filler (your tax dollars did not fund my attendance nor the conference, though I have no doubt the venue where it was held was tax-supported as it was city-owned) and it is a good book for having in the room wherein the porcelain convenience is ensconced... Called "Return to Civility," the lead author (it's a group collaboration) is John Sweeney of The Brave New Workshop . It has 365 little thought-provoking bon mots and aphorisms revolving...